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Brush It Off and Move On

Posted December 1, 2021 by Marsha in Shifter Haven Discussion / 0 Comments

2021 didn’t turn out quite the way I had anticipated, to be honest here.  There were some amazing highs, goals reached, lives changed this past year — there were also some very low moments, decisions to be made, and picking myself up off the ground far too often for my comfort.

I didn’t come anywhere near what I wanted to do here at Shifter Haven.  And I deeply regret that I practically lost a year of talking about amazing Shifter Romances here.  But… what’s done is done now.

So, right now, all I can do is move forward – plan better for 2022 – and put this year (like 2020) behind me and shake it off.  I survived 2021 and for that alone I’m grateful (even if I am posting this on December 1st – cringes)

Onward my friends, let’s see what I can do with the remainder of 2021, eh?  *smiles*

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So… Yeah, I Miss You, Too!

Posted June 22, 2021 by Marsha in Shifter Haven Discussion / 0 Comments

So.  I might have been missing from Shifter Haven posts recently.  But, honestly, there’s a really good reason for that.

Is a house purchase (first-time homeowner here) and packing up the current home a good enough reason to be… busy??  🙂

The move is under two weeks away now, things are moving along at the new house… and chaos reigns here in full bloom!

I’ve never considered myself as a hoarder, a collector of mugs, and a lover of books yes… but hoarder, nope, not really.  Well.  Packing up a lifetime of gathering “stuff” will change a person’s mind real quick!!  So there’s been a lot of giving away, and tossing that “What in the world is this? or What was I thinking!” kinda oddities.  I’m telling myself if I haven’t used it or opened it in five years then it’s time to part ways.  That’s working so far (for the most part).

There has been some reading during breaks but nothing like I’m used to, and especially little time to post much at all.  I’m hoping by early July or maybe mid-July to have some semblance of normal back in my life (that’s not a given by any means for I’ll never live a normal life *wink*)… it’s a goal so hopefully, it’s one that I can reach.

Although I miss my Shifter worlds like I never imagined possible (never had this long of a break from them), and the community of writers and readers who love this genre… sometimes life away from the Kindle or the keyboard has to be a priority.  I miss the interaction with other readers (and authors) here, on Twitter or Facebook – but I’m in the final stretch now.  A little more chaos to get through, then I can settle into redesigning my home, trying to remember where I put stuff in this new house… and get back to my love of Shifter Romance, which means getting lost in a book.

Hang in there with me, peeps.  The journey is far from over.  🙂

 

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Do You Form An Emotional Bond With The People In A Book?

Posted October 15, 2018 by Marsha in Shifter / 0 Comments

I just finished a pretty amazing book.  One where I’ve known the main character’s family, her father, her mother, her uncles and close friends for a long time now.  I have a bond with that character unlike any other.  Why?  Because the author made her and her entire family come alive for me over time until I know them almost as well as my own family.

Readers, bloggers… we kinda joke about book boyfriends, or book friends but there is probably more truth than joke to those statements, even if we’d rarely admit it.

Shifter romance is a genre that I don’t ever see myself growing tired of.  And, no, it’s not the hot, sexy Alpha males or the flaming sex scenes… although they have their enjoyment factor.  It’s really that I don’t find that type of attachment to the characters that I feel toward a Shifter couple as compared to any other genre.  I think there are a couple reasons (aside from the hot sexy stuff) that I feel that way.

I like the idea of fate stepping in, of knowing that there is one perfect for me person out there somewhere who is also searching.  I enjoy seeing a character say screw you to our society and fall in love with someone that might not be seen as “perfect” enough – that actually makes my day quite often.  The sense of belonging to a larger group of people who share a deep bond, a unified front, a history is also a strong point for Shifter romance.

But most of all… I enjoy reading a story that can touch my emotions, make me mad, sad, angry, giddy, nervous and just plain happy.  A story where with a few words I’m reminded of another story with familiar faces and there is a sense of reliving that story over again as I remember – her father, his sister, their cousin, their pack mate.  There’s a connection that flows through long series, connecting series that gives me a full circle look around the people within that universe.  A connection.  One that I rarely find in any other genre.  Oh, I can think of two offhand – but two compared to the hundreds of Shifter romances I’ve read and connected with is a bit lopsided don’t you think?

I understand that not every reader enjoys or even ‘gets’ Paranormal Romance.  You do have to stretch your imagination to envision a man’s body changing shape from human to wolf or bear or lion.  Yet, I make that transition very easily now, in a way the Shifter’s worlds have become my own because I accept them for exactly what they are… amazing flights of imagination that I love getting caught up in.

So to answer my own question:  “Do You Form An Emotional Bond With The People In A Book?” the simple answer is… Yes.  When I can cry real tears, when a scene will linger in my mind long after I’ve read on from it, when finding justice for a wrong is just as important to me as it is to the character… then yes, I do bond emotionally with the characters I’m reading about.  Like today – when the main character went back home and the scene was familiar, and the faces she saw were definitely loved and that sense of finally coming home was felt through the screen of my Kindle… then yes, yes I do connect — and when I stop connecting that is when I need to shut down the Kindle for the last time.

 

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